That’s the thing about pain. It demands to be felt

Here’s to the ones who had such bad anxiety
that sometimes, you feel like you’re drowning in oxygen.

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The hardest part of recovery
is when you’re not so sure you want to recover.

If he doesn’t love you when your thighs touch,
why do you want that kind of person in your life?

Some people just need a hug.
Some people just need someone to notice when theyre not ok.

If you read this, I hope something good happens to you today.


Love your life, every second of it

Things that make me smile:
* When my favorite song comes on the radio ♫♬♫♬
* Finding something that was lost 
* Smelling fresh flowers
* Sharing a warm cuo if tea
* Spotting a double rainbow
* Getting a text from my crush
* Eating a icecream in a cone
* Holding hands with you ♥ ♥

I know what’s best for me,
but I want you instead.
Sometimes it’s right to do the wrong things. ~

Corny as it sounds,
you are the one that brings the smile to my face.
But most importantly,
you are the one who can actually keep it there.




Grow old with me, the best is yet to be

I don’t know I just, I love you more than anything.
When people told me don’t be with him,
I was like you obviously don’t know him because
he’s the most amazing guy I’ve ever met in my life.
I never had a relationship like this; it’s so fun, it’s so everything
& you’re always there & I know for my whole life that you’ll always be there.
& I know that you’re the most loyal, amazing,
loving, everything person
& I love you more than anything in the whole world.

I want to be with you, I just want to be with you.
If I could hold your hand for the rest of my life,
I would never be scared again.
I want to hold you tight &
I want to tell you every second how much you mean to me
because nobody has ever meant more.
I want to be able to help you & make you smile,
just like you make me smile.


& something has to be right about us being together
because if it wasn’t,
I don’t think I would feel the way I do when
you kiss me.

The best place in the world
is in the arms of someone who will not only hold you at your best,
but will pick you up & hug you tight at your weakest moment.

I love you more than..
spongebob loves jellyfishing.
sandy loves karate
Mr. Krabs loves money.
&& Squidward loves his clarinet.
Baby I need you like Plankton needs
the krabby patty secret formula


Don’t waste your youth growing up

Gravity is the 0nly thing that could pull you down, the rest is in your hands.


Keep looking up, Mama used to tell me. There’s nothing on the ground but your feet.


So we need to rethink how we’re living our lives.
Because everyone & everything on this planet is connected.
You matter. & what you do every day, the choices you make,
the way you interact with other people,
it all matters.
& it all can change the world.


0ne of the best feelings in the world
is realizing you’re perfectly happy without
the thing you thought you needed the most.


Don’t you dare run, I’ve been doing that for years.

I was never the same again. From that moment on, life began with you.


It’s time to love who you are, and look forward to who you’re going to be.


Life is meant to be fun; it’s about living for moments, and not for people.


I have to believe in fairy tales. and I have to believe in love.



What a wonderful thought it is that some of the best days of our lives haven’t even happened yet.





Be nice to people

Suicide hotline :  1-800-273-8255
It only takes a second to give it to someone.. You never know who might need it.

The number of people who die by suicide is expected to reach 1.5 million per year by 2020,
that’s one every 20 seconds,
see a problem now?

Sometimes, you don’t know your strengths until someone tries to take advantage of your weakness.

I can’t save you from yourself.
You have to want to be saved.

It’s really sad that some people die
feeling like no one cares
just because some people don’t know how to show it until it’s too late.

Why do people wait for new years to change their lives?

You’re living, you occupy space & you have a mass, you know what that means?

Your words have the power to make someone’s day or push them over the edge.
It’s your choice.


Self harm doesn’t need a blade, or blood, or a wrist.

Some people just have a really hard time explaining how they feel.

Overthinking will literally kill you.

Even if you have self harm scars, I will still love you.

Letting go isn’t about giving up, it’s about accepting that there are things that cannot be.

Just because you’re unhappy, doesn’t mean you can’t laugh at funny things & smile at beautiful things & enjoy happy moments. You can still do happy things even if you are unhappy.

I hope you fall in lovewith someone who makes you question why you ever thought you would be better off alone.

I don’t think you can really save people, you can only love them & help them save themselves.


The most normal people are also the people that are fighting to keep themselves living everyday. It could be anyone.

You won’t understand until it happens to you.




Kiss it all better, I’m not ready to go

Suicide hotline :  1-800-273-8255
It only takes a second to give it to someone.. You never know who might need it.

0ne day, you’re going to meet someone who will know the darkest parts of your mind
& they’re still going to think you’re perfect.

There’s nothing worse than keeping everything bottled up inside
because it has to come out somehow & take it out on themselves.

You can fight a lot of people,
but the hardest battle is the one with yourself.
Even you don’t know how strong you really are.

It hurts untill it doesn’t anymore.
You think it’s going to break you, but it won’t.
You may not sleep as well at night, but you will be fine.

A person can only hear “it gets better” so many times before they want it to be better.

Even the strongest people have breaking points.
Don’t push them just because you think they can take it.

They are in so much pain in their heads that they think hurting themselves is worth it.
They need a shoulder to cry on, not judgement.

Honestly, I think everyone at some point just needs a really nice
long hug so they can just cry their tears out&feel that they’re loved.

Here’s to the people who aren’t really dead or alive. They just exist.

Trusting people can be really hard. You never know if they’re going to be understanding or if they’re going to judge you for what you say.


You are incredible

Don’t attach yourself to anyone who shows you the least bit of attention because you’re lonely.
Loneliness is the human condition.
No one is ever going to fill that space.
The best you can do is know yourself & know what you want.



I pity the man who truly believes I need him. I am a whole person,
a  complete individual on my own. I do not need a boy to “complete me”. 
This does not mean I would not appreciate a nice guy.
It just means I am a human,
capable of functioning with or without a man by my side.



I don’t think you understand that you don’t have me wrapped around your finger.
You think that you can do whatever you want to me & get your way in the end,
feelings satisfied. Well news flash, you don’t. I’m not yours anymore.

You don’t ever see someone.
You don’t see them as who they are & who they need to be recognized as.
You see them as who you need them to be.



& I’ll act like I don’t care because if there’s one thing I hate, it’s sympathy.
But I’m not good for you, & if you want my friends’ opinions,
you aren’t good for me either.
But disregarding all that, you still hold my heart, just like always.



tu eres mi mundo

I don’t want someone perfect, just someone to act silly with,
who treats me well, & someone who loves being with me more than anything else.

There are millions of people in this world, but in the end it all comes down to one.

I find myself wanting to waste my friday nights with you.

I hope that one day you will understand what I’m feeling for you, right now I just know, I don’t wanna go on without you.

I knew I was in love when all those stupid love songs started to make sense.


the world is a puzzle and we’re two pieces that fit perfectly together.



You will never break me


All of us started out as normal. All of us started out with the potentional to do almost anything we wanted, but somewhere along the path of our lives, we got lost.

I’m not scared anymore, because I know that in the end, fate will either bring us together or bring us something better.

Sometimes you end up losing yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you.

I had to learn the hard way that some people walk into our lives & physically walk out, but they never really leave.


You’ve got to learn to push through the hard times, because you have to face them. Running from them now, will only make you too tired to fight through when they catch up to you later.



The good times & the bad times both will pass. It will pass. It will get easier. But the fact that it will get easier, does not mean it doesn’t hurt now. & when people try to minimize your own pain you’re doing yourself a disservice. Don’t do that. The truth is that it hurts because it’s real. It hurts because it matterd. & that’s an important thing to acknowledge to yourself. But that doesn’t mean that it wont end. That it wont get better, because it will.


Success is the best revenge

I was born without you. So guess what? I can live without you.


I believe in karma.
I believe that everything you’ve ever done
will come back to bite you in the butt
& you’ll realize how many things you messed up
& how many people you hurt.
& as bad as it sounds, I hope I’m the first person you think of.


I realize that overall, you weren’t really worth it.
There were moments with you that made me really happy,
but majority of the time you just shut me out.
That’s why this time I swear I’ll try to get over you.
We might’ve had something really great, but I guess we’ll never know.
I’ll never forget the good times with you, but i’ll also never forget how you hurt me more than any boy ever has.

I don’t regret my past. I just regret the time I’ve wasted with the wrong people.

Days pass and feelings change. I’m wondering if you’ll regret that decision you made.


stay strong & never give up

Love does not begin&end
the way we seem to think
it does ;; l o v e is a battle ;
love is war; —-»
[ love is growing up ]




when you’re out of the game, don’t walk away defeated.
Put that smile on & shine, darling, & don’t let anything make you a shadow




don’t let any guy build you up with his words because the higher you are,
the harder you fall & trust me, you always fall.



don’t give up now. You never know if something amazing will happen tomorrow ~




Look at you, you’re young & you’re scared.
Why are you scared? Stop being paralyzed. Stop swallowing your words. Stop caring what other people think.



You’re worth it. Just thought I’d tell you in case no one else told you today.



There’s alwaysa reason you meet people.
Either you need them to change your life,
or you’ll be the one to change theirs.



Fall seven times, stand up eight.

Dear whoever is reading this,
you are beautiful & perfect in every way.
Smile, because you’re too amazing to be so sad. Stay Strong.

Hey you. Yeah, you.
The one with the broken smile & fighting back tears.
You are beautiful & you can do this.

Repeat after me: I am worth it.

I can’t promise you that tomorrow will be amazing,
but I can promise you that one day, it will be.

Be brave enough to hold onto the hope that life will be beautiful again.

If you haven’t heard it today, you’re beautiful.

To me, your imperfections are what make you beautiful.

Dear whoever is reading this, you’re amazing & don’t let anyone make you think that’s not true.

No matter how bad you think your life,
wake up each day and be thankful for what you have.
Someone somewhere is fighting just to survive.


life is beautiful & so are you

Don’t think too much, you’ll think your whole life away.
Just stop, close your eyes, & follow your heart.
I guarantee you, it knows the way.

It’s like I’m waiting for him to realize what he let go of.

Some people say they’d rather have something than nothing.
But the truth is,
it’s worse to have something halfway than to have nothing at all.

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost.
Move on,
because life is not meant to be traveled backwards.

If he doesn’t chase you after you walk away; keep walking.

 She’s the girl that has a few best friends & doesn’t need anyone.
The girl that laughs the hardest at her own jokes.
She’s the girl that will hang up on you, but then call you right back & say sorry.
She’s the girl who will never leave your side when you need her.
The girl who will go out of her way to cheer you up.
She’s the girl who never sleeps without her teddy bear by her side.
She’s the girl who says she isn’t ticklish, but really is.
She’s the girl who will not give up on you if she really believes in you.
She’s the girl who believes in loving somebody forever.


Don’t forget to smile

I may regret the way we ended, but I will never regret what we once had.

If you want to make it a good day, then do it. The only person standing in your way, is you.

You made your choice, & it wasn’t me. So if one day you try to come back and the choice is mine, it won’t be you. Karma hurts, baby.

I’ve learned that one of the biggest mistake in life is holding on to something that was lost a long time ago.

I’m not a bitch, you just don’t deserve my kindness.

I guess the reason I think I’m nothing is because no one has ever fought for me.
I believe that if I was really, truly, worth it,
that somewhere along this road,
someone would’ve fought for me to stay,
but instead, I always wound up walking away.


i’ve been losing sleep

I think you’re one of those people who everyone falls in love with, even for a tiny bit.

The truth is, sometimes I want to say badthings to you, or wish bad upon you.
But I don’t because I refuse to stoop that low, or be that person.
You’ve treated me so wrongly, and you continue to do so.
But I know one day for all the things you’ve done to me and said, you’ll be punished.
Karma is a bitch but only to those who were a bitch first. Remember that.

I’m scared, & I don’t say that often but I can’t stand the fact that you could hurt me.
You’re my everything & I hate it because you have everything you need to break me.

Whatever life gives you, even if it hurts you, just be strong and act like the way you always do,
because strong walls shake but never collapse.

It’s those priceless, unexplainable moments that matter most,
even if we don’t understand why they happen.

I dag har jeg meldt meg ut av partiet Høyre

Beate tenker høyt

Det var ikke noe 8. mars-tog der jeg var den dagen i år, så dette får bli min litt forsinkede kvinnedagsmarkering i stedet. Likestillingspolitikken i Høyre har dreid i en retning jeg som uttalt feminist ikke lenger kan stille meg bak. Jeg er så ufattelig skuffa over at partiet som jeg har vært med å heie frem over mange år velger å bruke stemmen min til å tale likestillingen midt i mot. Det var ikke dette jeg stemte på.

Jeg har venner både til høyre og til venstre i politikken. Men i likestillingsspørsmål, der har de stort sett ment det samme. Vi har irritert oss like mye over glasstak og “lille venn”-holdninger, og vært skjønt enige om at likestillingen langt fra er i mål enda. Nå er det merkelig stille fra mine feministvenner til høyre for streken.

Jeg hadde en litt dårlig følelse allerede under valgkampen. Plutselig var det det…

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